Sunday, March 7, 2010


I thought this was a must share, since we women are very high on the obnoxious and lose ourselves in the dive. About time that we have a pinup in our rooms and cubicles which like a mantra should be recalled every hour of the day!

I am not very good a woman myself, especially when most of the time I am a doormat and not a woman for real with an individuality.

How about you don't make the same mistakes which I have and embark on a journey of fulfillment of womanhood!

Yabba Dabba DOOOO!!!


1. One old boyfriend you can imagine going back to and one who reminds you of how far you've come.

2. Enough money within your control to move out and rent a place on your own, even if you never want or need to.

3. Something perfect to wear if the employer or man of your dreams wants to see you in an hour.

4. A purse, a suitcase and an umbrella you're not ashamed to be seen carrying.

5. A youth you're content to move beyond.

6. A past juicy enough that you're looking forward to retelling it in your old age.

7. The realization that you are actually going to have an old age and some money set aside to help fund it.

8. A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill and a black lace bra.

9. One friend who always makes you laugh and one who lets you cry.

10. A good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in your family.

11. Eight matching plates, wineglasses with stems and a recipe for a meal that will make your guests feel honored.

12. A resume that is not even the slightest bit padded.

13. A feeling of control over your destiny.

. A skin care regime, an exercise routine and a plan for dealing with those few other facets of life that don't get better after 30, and all those other facets of life that do get better.


1. How to fall in love without losing yourself.

2. How you feel about having kids.

3. How to quit a job, break-up with a man and confront a friend without ruining the friendship.

4. When to try harder and when to walk away.

5. How to kiss a man in a way that communicates perfectly what you would and wouldn't like to happen next.

6. How to have a good time at a party you'd never choose to attend.

7. How to ask for what you want in a way that make it most likely you'll get it.

8. That you can't change the length of your calves, the width of your hips or the nature of your parents.

9. That you childhood may not have been perfect, but it's over.

10. What you would and wouldn't do for love or more.

11. How to live alone, even if you don't like it.

12. Who you can trust, who you can't, and why you shouldn't take it personally.

13. Where to go - be it your best friend's kitchen table or a charming inn hidden in the woods - when your soul needs soothing.

14. What you can and can't accomplish in a day, a month, and a year.

15. Why they say life begins at 30.

So my dear lovlies! Are you filling to gear up and know it all :D live it all!

Let's do it :D


hehehehe! I love being a woman! that is for sure

19 blandishes:

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

Glad I know what I should but have not even 2% of the list. Need to work on that. Thanks for making me realize. ;)


IcE MaiDeN said...

You know AD, I was in the EXACT mood to read this since I just got home from a shopping spree :P which makes me a the new proud owner of new catwalk boots *delighted grin*


And I know it for a fact, having been at that that stage sometimes not so long ago, that most of the times we women just plain FORGET to put ourselves first! And for anyone who hasn't yet realized it, goddddddd its a heavenly feeling! :) DO try it sometime ladies :)

Wonderful read! :) LUV IT!


Ria said...

nice list AD!! :) a must for every woman.

Nipun said...

A great list..:)
More about women.
Actually the more u knw, the lesser it becoms..



яノςんム said...

Perfect Woman's dy post i must say :) and i'd try to achieve those things in list which i donot have exactly right now :)

Americanising Desi said...

Richa I realized after posting that it really hits off as the women's day post :D

love you ladies!

Ann said...


Great Post :) Really lovely and motivating.

Yellow Tulip said...

lovely post gal... happy woman's day...

:)...happy to be me!!:)

joie de vivre said...

and i learned all the do's n dont's :P

thankoo sweety for makin me smile i needed it a lot..

Push Vs Pull said...

Thank you for you ideas. I shared what you have mentioned in this post to one of my friend and she really liked it !

Anonymous said...

I don't remember reading this amazing list before!!

Thanks for sharing :) I think this should be read by all women :)

haritha said...

so true...
thx for sharing sum of d info..
tc :)

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I'm Nu said...

came here from IHM's...nice list drawn up and quiet logical :)

Piper .. said...

I`m here from IHM`s blog and am so glad I found ya! :):) What a perfect list this is! And I so need it pal! :) I`m going to put this up on my blog too, if you dont mind! :)

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Nalini Hebbar said...

A very nice post indeed...loved it...became a little womanier after reading this...I think I veto almost 99.9% of what you say though I am maybe 50% older to you(My guess, maybe wrong)...smiling at you!!!

Americanising Desi said...

all the right inspirations in one place :)
that is all!

suruchi said...

I absof@#$inglutely loved it...
My, my woman...u have a great knack of saying the best n deepest of things in just one liners...
Soooooooooooo impressed n yup I agree with all u said...

In fact noted a few pointers for myself...
Great read...
The best Woman’s Day read so far..and then u say u are not much of a woman with an individuality...hmm...April fooling us early are u?;-)

Among the should have’s...I love:
1,5,6 and 9...I’ve noted them down on my ‘to-do’ list;-)

Among the should know’s:

Okay...sharing this with my friends on face book now...u rock:-)